This is the most important aspect of life, which we can discuss together. share your own views and stories with us. lets talk about carriers and money and big houses, but except love last forever.
People aren't stupid although i call them that everyday grumbling about idiocy everywhere. people always know when they are in love there is no such thing as a true love and false love its love You could be the most cold-hearted or may be the psychologist and doctor who thinks that love is just dopamine fired neural pathways . how many times has this scenario of your love walk into the room , been written in beautiful words? why ? because people know . it wouldn't be the most sought after resource on the planet if people didn't know .am i right ? you know when you are in love . then why would you let that person go??
It will never gonna be same :
All the memories against each other will never feel the same. Ever. Even with another person, however handsome or beautiful he/she is. every touch feels a bit too warm or too cold. every hug too tight or too loose. every kiss will leave you incomplete. you will never do the same things with someone else, even if you do them all over again. because the heart remembers everything.
Everyone else is just temporary :
That pretty girl or handsome guy who seems too handsome and nice at the same time are not worth it. its temporary . yes , they seem better that the deal you have right now, but they are not. even if you leave your heart always stays at home. when you realize this and come back, and do not find that person home because he/she left. that person has someone else now. was this fling you had worth it? because now your heart will weep.
No its not gonna be OK :
You will fall in love again, yes you have a partner for life. you learned your lesson and now you truly want to settle down? why didn't you do it with that person earlier? no. its not because you weren't ready. you were just too afraid. your brain is smart. it will reassure you and rationalize that you needed that as a steeping stone. like that experience of a heartbreak was necessary because you are a better person now because of it. no. your present commitment will always be a shadow compared to the non-commitment you had with other person. you can deny it all you want , but when you are alone , ask yourself the question . from the far recesses of your being will come the true reply, not clothed in flawed logic and rationales.
You will Regret it :
We hide our instincts under the grab of logic and reasoning . the moment you let that person go, you regret it. and no, its not a withdrawal symptom . withdrawal symptoms don't last a lifetime . When you are old and worn out with wrinkles and you see that person walk by the old street in the old town, your heart will scream. you will ignore it with wisdom and intelligence , but it is what it is. looking the other way doesn't make the monster behind you disappear .
Its just not Right :
Everyone deserves love . Everyone craves it. Even the monsters amidst us. it is the absence of love that creates them. you found it. you a normal person. you are living with love. taking yourself away or letting it go away is just wrong . for you and for that person too. because you deserve the fullness of it, even if it tastes sour every once in a while. especially , if it tastes sour every once in while. no one likes everything to be sweet for too long. watch the imperfections, the quirks and the weirdness of that person you love. watch them for two minutes. in your head, just take these imperfections away for two seconds, and that person isn't the person you fell in love with anymore. even when you think it doesn't exist in denial, it will . its what love is. don't let it go. and if you have lost it, go,get it back.
